Hey everyone. I know it has been awhile since I’ve last updated. But I’m
back!
This post is gonna be dedicated to the different BAD kinds of friends I have encountered over my lifetime. I don’t
mean to offend anyone. Anything that I’ve mentioned is strictly coincidental
and are my own personal experiences.
1. The hi-bye friend
These are people who you call acquaintances. They aren’t really close
with you but you do acknowledge each other when you see one another.
2. The check-in and check-out
friend
This friend treats you as though you are a hotel where they can stop by
whenever as long as they need to. Take for instance, they need to borrow some cash
from you. You never ever hear from them unless they need something or want some
comforting.
3. Attached-already-no-need-you
friend
Wow. How many of these have I encountered? I don’t think I can even
count. When they are single, they are always around you. Texting, calling,
asking you out and checking up on you every now and then. You talk, gossip and
what not. The minute he or she gets attached, you cease to exist. You can
barely even get their attention.
And when they are single again, back they are. You definitely do not
need to give a damn about this shitty people. You aren’t their spare tyre.
4. The one who makes use of you
The type of friends who goes for lectures, doesn’t bother to recap on
their own and makes you teach/explain it to them. They do not make the effort
to do anything and expects you to hand it to them on a silver platter.
For example, you work really hard to make your exam notes, she comes
along and asks “can I see your notes please? I need to check it with mine to
see if I missed out anything.” Well thing is, she did not actually did her own.
She just pretends like she did and gets your notes free-of-charge.
5.
In-school friends
They hang with you in school. You talk and have fun in school together.
The minute the holidays are around, pooof. Nowhere to be found. When you ask
them out, “erm, sorry I don’t think I am free” or “I need to check with my
parents if we are going anywhere.” And they never ever get back to you.
But
you know what, at the end of the day, you still have those who are with you
through thick and thin. Don’t let these “small little frys” get to you, you do
not need them. :)
